Sexual Assault

Apparently, Thailand is well known for sex trade. I feel an increasing resentment for foreign men who behave oddly towards every Thai Woman they come across in the country.

Most men they try to drool over every women they can. It is completely an off putting behavior. Without future ado, I would like to tell all foreign men who visit Thailand to bear in mind that not every Woman in this country is into sex trade.

Pattaya is not only a tourist place. Yet, is also a place where we Thai people come along with family and friends for a long weekend holiday to enjoy ourselves. Frequently, I have been to walking street with my friends for a nice stroll. But, what happened that night was quite depressing for us.

We entered one of the pubs on walking street. There were a mob of people inside enjoying themselves and swaying with the music. We strolled over to one of the tables and ordered drinks. After, a kick from the drinks we headed off to the dancing floor.

Suddenly, a weedy looking foreign man started dancing with us he seemed to have taken too many drinks and looked a little out of his mind. We moved away from him but, he kept coming closer to us. Aggressively, we left the dance floor and headed back to our table weary and exhausted.

Then, the same weedy looking man emerged with two more guys on our table. At first I was quite perplexed of why they were there. He came forward and spoke in a slurred speech that he and his friends would want to know if we were interested to go spend a night at the hotel with them for 2000 baht.

We were flabbergasted and I fumed and snapped back “we are not hookers”. With a distress feeling we left the pub.

A lot of people are approached by a complete stranger in shopping malls in Pattaya bluntly asking them if they are interested to spend a night with them and how much they charged.

I see banners everywhere saying that save “sex slaves’’. How can it be stopped, when every man who visits Thailand looks at all the woman with those leaching eyes.

Reader's comments:

Just visited Pattaya 4 days back. And i had a very bad experience. i belong to a good family,had enough money, but when i tried to enter in GO GO bar in pattaya, they just refused the entry saying , its only for members.i was shocked to hear it. same thing happend with us in 3 go go bars. and then we decided to not to try anymore. i spend so much money over there, around $2500 in just 5 days, and we get such discrimination, it was really depressing. i don t understand why they do not let indians enter in their bars ? Added by: Pawan    Report abuse

yes, some gd and bad comments. if you apply the be nice technique than its always more pleasant no matter what u r doing. yes, thai girls that hang around in pattay bars are looking to hook up, i too have seen this - im sorry. whether they are students coming for the wk/end or full time pattayans, if the guy fits the de ion then its on!personal experience, insomnia disco, student buys ME a drink, her dads a cop, she lied to her mum about where she was, and asked if could crash at my hotel...dadada..standard practise. for all you caucasian girls, no match for even a mediocre thai girl - reality. and not all guys heading to some of the hotspots are old fat slobs. but i can guarantee you, all of them have a rockin time, and like anywhere in the world, yes some ppl are morons. thailand is a brilliant place to travel to, and just because some of the nights might end with a circus in bed, how do other tourist destinations around the world differ to that??greek islands, eastern europe, south america, sweden...should i keep going?? take care all and happy travels. Added by: just my 2 cents    Report abuse

Only1 thing to say AIDS Added by: Dave UK    Report abuse

Hi i am Indian cming at Pattaya on 07SEP09 staying in hotel for 03 nights need a girl to stay with me in between 20-35 age slim.Can contact me on tondale_kiran@hotmail.com Added by: kt05    Report abuse

I have dancer friends from Thai,be wise cause everybody make mistakes. If you respect them it means you respect yourself too. Added by: ck    Report abuse

Well reading what all you have wrote sounds to me like you all need to wake up!Stop Snitching & Stop Lying Ive been to Pattaya 4 times & already seen up to 3 bank statements from Bar Girls getting money from up to 5 Farangs overseas(suckers) - my girls still working in the bar cause they love it,(getin $ from stupid Farangs overseas & still giving up the pussy 2 make more $) u can take the Bargirl out if the nitelife but you cant take the nitelife out of the Bargirl. I say my girls only cause when i m in town i take them for maybe 1000 or so they know i m a good person with a good heart cause i treat them with respect then in the bedroom they show me how nasty/slutty they can be, see it works both ways show respect & you get the best headys & the pussy+Ass to match.Classroom1 rules, Walking St rules, sois 6,7,8 rocks like no tomorrow. So what you all got to say bout that, Ill be in Pattaya Soi 7 bout 230am 19/1/2008 it ll be popin crakin, rockin till the wheels fall off you know how it is - you know whats going on,I m sliding off gettin my c#*k sucked while u all still bitchin at one another Added by: MeinOz    Report abuse

pattaya bar girls are very proud and crud they every time confuse due look new new foreign Added by: Zee Tv srtff    Report abuse

Ha Ha,i am a europeon lady,whose brother is happily married to a Thai lady, therefore i have many Thai friends, as i visit two/three times per year. The majority of ladies think falangs are stupid,and grateful for a little attention. They laugh there thongs off when you leave the bar. Oh i could write a book.If you only knew what was discussed between them you would never manage another hardon again Added by: tilac    Report abuse

I M AN INDIAN FROM THE U.S AND BOY I GOT DISCRIMINATED AS I WAS A BLACK MAN LEAVING IN THE STATES THERE WERE SOME GO-GO BARS THAT INTIALLY REFUSED ME ENTRY, STATING MEMBERS ONLY INDIANS WHO COME FROM INDIA ARE CHEAP GIVING OTHER INDIANS ABROAD A VERY BAD IMAGE. I MET A CHINESE AMERICAN IN PATTAYA RECENTLY AND MAJORITY OF THE LADIES IN THE BARS THOUGHT HE WAS JAPANESE (A GOLDMINE)GOOD PART OF IT WAS I GOT ENTRY EVERYWHERE AND LATER THE ESTABLISHMENTS SAW MY COLORS. Added by: INDIAN AMERICAN    Report abuse

Jenny, Not every Farang is like your bad experience, even though I go to Pattaya to relax and have fun I treat everyone with respect regardless of where I meet them, you take care. Added by: Petesie    Report abuse

planning to visit pattayya soon. how safe is having sex with body massage girls. i mean they go for routine STD test. any one can help me please Added by: sur    Report abuse

My gf (asian not thai but looked sort of thai) got groped while shoping in phuket by some germans. lucky for him i wasnt with her that afternoon. you can see why the thais et angry about sex tourists. they dont mind tourists paying for sex but dont treat the girls like dirt Added by: Rick    Report abuse

That Jenny sure can speak good English, almost perfect grammar, is she really Thai do you think? Added by: Sexy Dave    Report abuse

Why shouldn’t she be able to go out to a pub in her own country without being asked “how much”? I’ll tell you why, because there is a bunch of you fat old fuckers that can’t get it up without Viagra coming here because there is now way a woman would spread there legs for you at home. I hear yo all talking about how farang men a fed up with western women blab la bla. You go on about how you deserve better then a fat wife at home…but wake up folks, look in the mirror, surprise surprise you’re a fat old fucker that can’t even see his dick since his gut sticks out to far. Oh ya buddy you’re a real catch. Remember at the end of the day boys, it’s her fucken country, not yours. Would you do that in you home country? Of course not you would get kicked in your shriveled up old nuts. Maybe you might want to think that if you had a bit of respect for women and yourself, you wouldn’t have to fly half way around the world to pay for sex then look down on the person your paying. Wake up people, who’s worse, the buyer or the seller? Neither exist without the other. At the end of the day, your the sorry waste of oxygen that has to pay to get a piece of ass, how pathetic are you? By the way, if you don t like Thailand, stay home, we won t miss you Added by: Blow Me    Report abuse

Jenny, what you say can be reversed. I hope you don t mind me using your same words: Many Thai hookers are quite blunt when they offer their services, and one time a katoei was aggressive when proposing to me. So the reverse is also true. Some farangs are approached by a complete stranger (a Thai woman) in shopping malls in Pattaya bluntly asking them if they are interested to spend a night with them and how much they charged. The question is: How can it be stopped, when every Thai woman in the sex trade looks at all the farangs who visit Thailand with those leaching eyes...hoping to take as much money from the farang as she can. Added by: upset farang    Report abuse

well said angie Added by: sean    Report abuse

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